Life is Tough…But I’m Tougher

“I choose to be unstoppable. I am bigger than my concerns and worries. The strength of others inspire me daily. I focus on my goal. I trust my intuition and live a courageous life.”

I think I can speak for a majority of people when I say that life sure has a way of knocking us down sometimes. I can be one that can attest for that statement, especially after the events that have unfolded these past few weeks. I will be straight up and honest when I say I always try to put on a “tough girl” front. I strive to make a goal to try to be a positive light in others people lives even when I am facing struggles of my own. Sincere optimism, sassy sense of humor and simply smiling are three traits I want to exhibit to others no matter what…at least that is my goal. But as we all know, none of us are perfect. We can only be strong for so long before we break, crumble, fall away from our normal self and become distant from others for a while until we can pick the pieces up and put ourselves back together.My horse, Cherry Bomb, and I

“Sometimes, the prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets. The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears and the kindest hearts have felt the most pain.”

So I think I made it obvious that I unfortunately have experienced some tough times here recently. Extreme stress from graduate school, uncertainties of what my future holds, losing a dear family member and other things have really gotten to this sassy lady. Yes I will admit, there has been times that I have almost completely broke down. Yes, there has been times that I wanted to just give up. However, it did not take me long to realize that is not who I am. That is not how I want to live my life. It took some conversations with the big man upstairs, some flipping of Bible pages, advice from some of my closest friends/family and constant reminder from myself that I am strong enough to handle anything.

“Life…has knocked me down a few times, it showed me things I never wanted to see, I experienced many sadness and failures…But one thing for sure- I ALWAYS GET UP”

Thankfully, I’ve been able to regroup and get to feeling normal again. I have taken a step back, remembered what is truly important in life and have made these bad events into learning experiences. (And of course, I had to incorporate optimism into them all!) Stress from graduate school? I have to deal with it. Stressing about it will not make it any better. Uncertain about the future? Quit worrying about it! Have faith in God that He will direct my paths and will provide like always. Losing a family member? Never easy and downright depressing. (My cousin passed away after fighting breast cancer and it was super hard on my entire family, but I know she is in a much better place where she is feeling no pain). And one of those other things – I’ll be honest about it – is getting poison ivy all over my face and arms which led to a trip to the doctor, who then put me on meds that literally made me crazy. I know this doesn’t seem like a major deal, but when you are horribly moody, unable to fall asleep at night and retaining water making you feel like a hippo, all while having a nasty rash on your face then you kind of lose it. Haha, you can go ahead and laugh but it was just the straw that broke the camels back if that makes sense.1373928_10201913058490130_1771588366_n

“Next time you’re stressed: take a step back, inhale and laugh. Remember who you are and why you’re here. You’re never given anything in this world that you can’t handle. Be strong, be flexible, love yourself and love others. Always remember just keep moving forward.”

In lieu of all of these situations, I have learned a great deal about myself and life in general. First of all, tough situations lead you to discover who your true friends are and who really does belong in your life. Secondly, simply stated life is going to suck sometimes. That is just how it is. You just have to rely on God and rely on your faith to remain strong to overcome these not-so-good times. Also, another lesson learned is that life is too short to be anything but happy. Seriously, make the most and best out of each day and never take anything for granted. Most importantly, life is a blessing , so stop stressing!!!! On a more funny note, I did learn that if I ever get poison ivy again, I will not take the medicine that makes me a crazy person. (I think a lot of other people will appreciate that too!) Here is a list of quotes that sums up what I have learned that can also help you 🙂

  • “Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be.”
  • “Life is too short to stress yourself with people who do not even deserve to be an issue in your life.” -Anon
  • “Faith is knowing and believing, not wondering and doubting.”
  • “Use your smile to change this world. Don’t let this world change your smile.”
  • “Don’t stress the could haves. If it should have, it would have.”
  • “Just because the past didn’t turn out like you wanted it to, doesn’t mean your future can’t be better than what you’ve ever imagined.”
  • “The secret of being happy is accepting where you are in life and making the most out of everyday!”
  • “Never let a bad situation bring out the worst in you. Choose to stay positive and be strong.”
  • A woman’s strength isn’t just about how much she can handle before she breaks. It is also about how much she must handle after she’s broken.” 1384977_10201948418534109_452540958_n

My “AG” ventures definitely have not been the most positive situations lately that is for sure. However, I do know that I will be an even stronger person now that I have been able to endure what I have so far. I know that as people, we all go through times when you cannot help but feel a little down. I must say that if it was not for my family, friends, my horse, my dogs and my faith, I know I would not even be where I am today. It is these things that truly matter because they are the ones who are always by my side and they are the ones that always puts a smile on my face. I hope this post serves as an inspiration/motivation for others who are going through struggles and trials of their own. There are always brighter days ahead. Just keep your head up, keep smiling and let your light shine!

“I believe everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go. You believe lies so that you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they’re right. And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” – Marilyn Monroe

 

This blog is dedicated to my cousin Deana who recently lost her battle to breast cancer. She was one of my biggest inspirations and is a true hero! Please remember that it is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Think Pink!!!!!

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Comments

  1. Nice .
    Your Cousin will be observing and guiding you from Heaven.
    You are very Strong.

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